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Originally Posted by red98vett I've had lots of friends that just went nuts about porn and their men. And I refuse to call it art - it's not. |
That reminds me that when my husband and I were first married, he was addicted to internet porn. I found out about it, printed off the website he went to and he tried to deny it!
He wasn't having relations with me, our son had been born and he even turned down sex. Well, enough was enough.
I was ready to leave him. I slept in our daughter's room and refused to speak to him for several days. This time, he had hurt me enough.
I took our computer out to the back yard and turned on the water hose. End of computer. I then told him I forgave him and IF we were to ever have another computer, I would have control over it and would have parental controls put on his user id.
Well, the internet porn is no more. I know that where he works (jail), porno magazines get sent to inmates there and since the inmates cannot get them, the officers look at the magazines. That's fine...what I don't know won't hurt me but that crap better not EVER make it through my front door. He respects this so it's not an issue we fight about.