It is sad that people are getting their feelings hurt by a small minority. The magic word is minority.
I took a vacation from YT because of some of the things being said. At times we all seem to go off and not take a breath of fresh air to stop and look and listen to what is being said. We tend to jump in with both feet and the fight is on.
Do I have clean hands no- I got caught up in some of the ugliness also in the past. Will I be party to it again no. It was childish and uncalled for.
Some folks are just know it alls. No matter what the subject they will know all the answers and have advice for you right or wrong. Some are very good at bluffing- wonder if they play poker?
When things get heated and you are being bated- it is hard but you have to walk away. Nothing that you say will get those people to stop. PM that person who is being attacked and let them know that you support them. Just let the thread drop.
When you do not respond when someone has posted- you make it quite clear that this person is being avoided. That person may try and change their attitude because of the positive reinforcement.
Yt should not be a forum of groups competing against each other. Yt was formed as a fun and informative place for those who love the breed to meet and interact. |