I think to be a good member of YT you need too:
1.) Check in daily so many things happen if you don't
2.) Don't take things personally (Jeanie hit the nail on the head)
3.) Be proud of the fact that you found a place to go and talk about how much you love your Yorkie and we all feel the same way
4.) Understand that not everyone is as Yorkie savvy as you may be but they have come here to learn and how cool is that?