i agree with you, that kind of stuff happens all the time on public forums. I try not to let it get to me anymore. Its hard not to place your own emotions and tone into what others say and alot of time people misinterpret what others are saying. But there's too much good information on a forum like this to let the other stuff bother you. I post what i want, when i want, and if someone disagrees then so be it. I'm not gonna let my opinion not be heard or read anymore, because i've learned that its just as important as anybody elses, no matter what some may think.
Post more, let your thoughts be known and more then likely not, your opinions will be welcome here. Most people are very open and accepting, and i hate to have someone feel they can't post what they want.
I know the person you are talking about and i know how they feel, but they shouldn't have to feel that way or hide anything about their gorgeous yorkie no matter what size she is. Most of the time its not the owners fault, but people jump to conclusions and think what they want before they get the whole story. that's just human nature.