Denise, I wish you would reconsider about leaving YT.
I honestly believe that no one intentionally posted anything on this thread meaning it to be cruel or condesending. Sometimes when things are written, you cannot understand the tone or emotions behind the words. Oftentimes, our emotions make us think people are being cruel when they really aren't. I truly believe that everyone on YT feels very badly for the situation that you are in. As loving YT members, we were simply trying to think of alternative solutions to rehoming your little man since you expressed how much you were hurting that you had to give him away. I think that from your first post we did not understand that the decision was already made to give him away. That is why we were offering suggestions on potty training and suggestions on how to resolve the issue without you having to part with your beloved doggie. None of those suggestions were meant to be taken that you were a bad mommy. We ALL know that you are an EXCELLENT yorkie mommy!
I can assure you that no one wants to make this situation harder than it already is for you. Simply from the fact that SOOOO many people posted offering suggestions should tell you that we all really do care about you and want you to be happy. Again, PLEASE reconsider leaving YT. I truly believe that EVERYONE on this forum is here for help and support of others that need it. Sometimes when we (including myself) don't like the advice we receive, we misconstrue the intentions behind it.
Please keep us updated on how the rehoming goes. |