In the end you have to do whats right for you and your family Even if it means getting rid of him. i do hate to hear that. I could see my husband saying the same thing to me if it got too bad. I dont know your entire situation so I cant be judgemental but I can say this. several months ago I had another cat and Id had her about a year.We moved to our new house and found he to be spraying all over the walls even thouigh she was fixed. A brand new house One night I cleaned 17 different spots on the walls.. Not to mention the carpets. I took her to the vet she was fine. She hadseveral months to get usre to the new bigger nicer place but seemed to be getting worse. My husband said she had to go so I got rid of her.. At the time I did what I had to do but honestly I wouldnt do it again becouse I dont know if shes ok or where she is ect. i feel horriable for what I did and wish I could change it but I cant. But still sometimes you have to do things you dont like. |