I am sure you paid quite a bit of money for your little guy so what is a few dollars more to find a solution?

There has to be one,I wish someone knew how to get hold of the Dog Whisperer,I bet he would know what the problem is.How about a lined belly band with an absorbent pocket?Maybe some deodorant powder would help the smell.
I am having some problems with my 11 month old male because of training the 9 week old little girl.He knows better but I think he thinks he gets more attention if he misses his pee pad.He does,but the wrong kind.When he hits the mark we have a pee or poop party and he beats me to the pantry to get his"treat".
I am sorry but I can't possibly understand why your husband won't try to help you work this out,after all he does know how much you love your puppy

.I would think he also knows that making you part with Parker is not making him look like a loving ,caring hubby.Maybe he needs some more patience and to relax a bit.Not coming down on your husband but I do think he should consider your feelings and love for this puppy.
How old is Parker and how long have you had him?Have you talked about his problem to any professionals or the breeder you bought him from ? Has your breeder ever had a problem like this reported to her/him before ?I know there is help for your baby ,it is just finding it!!
I am in Indiana too,west central ,just North of Terre Haute.Since you are in Indiana ask your vet about getting Parker to Purdue University for help.They have a great vet program and might even have an idea of what the problem could be.My husband had his English Bulldog there before I married him and he said they were wonderful.Check out all avenues!!
Come on everyone,let's get our heads together and find some help for Parker and piece of mind for his mommy!!!This little guy is still a baby,he needs another chance!!! Plus he needs to stay with her!!!
Besides all of the above,what would you do with Parker?? He can't be handed around to a bunch of different people how neurotic would that make him and you??? Poor little guy.