Oh no what a tough position you are in, but no way would a man ever control my life, by telling me what i can and cant have.
As marriage is about compromise couldn't you ask to have 3 months more time with a trainer, and then if that doesn't work, find him a new home?
Im wondering if maybe the reason parker peed on your husband is because he was excited? Mitzi has peed on me a few times when she has gotten really excited.
Its also about dominance so i think parker would deffinatley benefit from a trainer.
If you do decide to do as your husband wishes,you will end up resenting him.
Good luck with persuading your husband
