Hi Tammy,
I read your initial post and I could tell by reading it that you were writting it when you were over whelmed...believe me I do feel like that some days, and any parent who says they have never had those days are lying. I have a son who is 3 and a daughter who is 2.
I love my kids, but I also need my space sometimes. Villette is absouletly right when she says he needs to be in his OWN bed. He does, and every night you allow him to sleep in your bed you are making the problem worse. My kids both come into my room in the morning when they wake up and cuddle with me and on weekends sleep with me for an hour or so, but they know where there bed is and that is where they go every night. Sometimes just that hour or two at night when they are sleeping helps a ton as well.
Also, please discuss this with your husband.
All the best! |