Girl - I agree - you need to throw your OWN HUGE PARTY

- invite em all - see how it goes and that may break the ice for you. It sounds like you're being left out and that would bother me too -
the pictures looked good - I know they're professional pictures and you were doing that sultry thing - but people will respond to geniuine smiles that reach the eyes.... so those pictures are deceiving...lol - GREAT Looking

- but probably not the YOU that someone would see in person...
so I would have to think it IS NOT YOU - it's maybe just your neighbors - do you think they may be intimidated by you ? Maybe they think you have lots to do already ?
and Steve ...CONGRATULATIONS on your new job !! (I'm sure if I saw you - I'd be staring too - remember - I've SEEN your pic and you are worth staring at hehe)