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Jaspermom · 06-08-2006, 01:49 PM

Wow, a lot can happen if you don't look at YT for a few days!

I am so proud of you for giving your hair to Locks of Love, Val sweetie! I am also thrilled with how you handled your hubby's anger. I agree with Teri (must be the older woman's view, eh Ter?) with the idea that telling your hubby first would have been better for him. Not ASKING him, TELLING him that you were cutting your hair. That way it wouldn't have been so shocking to him seeing you in short hair. Yes, he would have tried to talk you out of it, but you are right, it is YOUR hair, and you have the unconditional right to do what you want with it. However, you also have to live with this man, and a warning may have smoothed the way.

This will not be the last bump in the Marriage Road, lol. I say these times are what make us grow and change, and as long as you two do this together, you will be a stronger and more loving couple when you come out the other end of this tunnel.

GOOD LUCK!
xoxoxoxo

06-08-2006, 01:49 PM	#81
Jaspermom Yorkies Rock My World! Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: North Carolina Posts: 4,721	Val, you look terrific, sweetie! Wow, a lot can happen if you don't look at YT for a few days! I am so proud of you for giving your hair to Locks of Love, Val sweetie! I am also thrilled with how you handled your hubby's anger. I agree with Teri (must be the older woman's view, eh Ter?) with the idea that telling your hubby first would have been better for him. Not ASKING him, TELLING him that you were cutting your hair. That way it wouldn't have been so shocking to him seeing you in short hair. Yes, he would have tried to talk you out of it, but you are right, it is YOUR hair, and you have the unconditional right to do what you want with it. However, you also have to live with this man, and a warning may have smoothed the way. This will not be the last bump in the Marriage Road, lol. I say these times are what make us grow and change, and as long as you two do this together, you will be a stronger and more loving couple when you come out the other end of this tunnel. GOOD LUCK! xoxoxoxo __________________ Glad Mom to Jasper, Wosie & Dreama, RIP sweet babies.