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Originally Posted by Passionfruition Ok....he was a butt all evening but by the end of the night he apologised...and said that his behaviour was irrational and uncalled for and he asked for my forgiveness.
I told him I'd forgive him if I knew what he was sorry for - because he said and did a lot of mean things in the past 24 hours.
It ends up that he is very sorry but still thinks I must be a different person because "the Valerie he knew never would have done this to him" etc etc. I must be a NEW Valerie.....LOL, I know I look like one! Haha. 
He still thinks I was dead wrong for not asking his permission first. I told him that he has controlling issues that he needs to deal with. He was shocked and seriously does not see them but I told him that in the future if he tries to control me like this he's going to come up against a brick wall....again. LOL.
So everything is better now. Sortof. He still hates my hair, though. |
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I'm glad things are a bit better between you two! My hubby also likes to control things and be a bit bossy and when I see a spell coming on, I quickly create a project just for him...he's the boss of it. It puffs him up a bit and keeps him out of my hair for a while so I can get the real work done, LOL Maybe you can try something like that with Eli?? Is he easily distracted by the false sense of control a wife-created project brings?