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Originally Posted by cindy0721 it's gotta be stress... or maybe it's a early mid life crisis..... you guys just gotta talk it out.... good luck... and kuddos to you for keeping your cool!  |
Hmm, early mid-life crisis? He just turned 25 last week. Could that have something to do with it?
And yes I would like to sleep over at my parents' for a night or make him sleep on the couch, etc......but I want to be careful as to not lash out and have anything to apologise for, in his eyes, I mean. I want the guilt to remain on his shoulders b/c so far I've done nothing wrong and remained nice etc. He knows it, too. I'm upset and want him to know what he's doing is hurtful....but I don't want to provoke him or give him any reason to think I also have ANYTHING to apologise for.
My mom is leaving for Africa on a trip for 3 weeks in the morning so I will go over to her house to "hang out" for a while this evening anyway so that will be good. Maybe he'll come with me and my dad can talk some sense into him, lol.