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Originally Posted by Passionfruition Thanks. You're so sweet. As to your question, yes, we make almost every decision together. I've only had my hair cut once before and he went with me, and I sometimes go with him to get his cut too. I did mention I wanted to donate my hair again but he wouldn't listen and got upset every time I brought it up.... So he can't say I didn't tell him at all, but no I didn't call him the morning OF and tell him I was about to go do so (which is what he said I was WRONG for not doing). But do I have to call him at work to ask him before doing everything?  "Ok, honey, I'm going to the bathroom to do a #2 now, is that ok?" 
I share my life with him and I'm very open and honest, but I can't be "controlled"......I want to be myself, be spontaneous sometimes, make my own decisions. I'm married, not dead. |
I agree with you..... well my two cents are the same as everyone else's.... hubby and I do everything together it's nuts...but I still cannot see him getting mad at me for cutting my hair...maybe laughing at me for a silly cut but that is about it..... he might be going through his male menopausal stage.... don't laugh I'm serious..... I am going on 4 years being married this June21st and when we were on 2 yrs... hubby went into this doubting stage... weird huh.... he doubted his marriage, job choice and life decisions in general..... but he got over it... no soon enough but that's something else...... hmmmmmm..... what does he do for a living????