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Originally Posted by chewysmom aaawww, Vally! I am so sorry you are going thru this  Eli is the opposite of my Big Daddy...he's always telling me to cut my hair into a bob 
This does sound like it's something else and not just the haircut. Do you make a lot of decisions or plans without him? Maybe he is just reacting to being left out on some level? I kinda agree with Jenn on this...maybe you should just pop over to a friend's or your parents' house and spend the night. A little space may do you some good?
Good luck and you really do look great. It really isn't a bunch of people "just saying" it. It's true  |
Thanks. You're so sweet. As to your question, yes, we make almost every decision together. I've only had my hair cut once before and he went with me, and I sometimes go with him to get his cut too. I did mention I wanted to donate my hair again but he wouldn't listen and got upset every time I brought it up.... So he can't say I didn't tell him at all, but no I didn't call him the morning OF and tell him I was about to go do so (which is what he said I was WRONG for not doing). But do I have to call him at work to ask him before doing everything?
"Ok, honey, I'm going to the bathroom to do a #2 now, is that ok?"
I share my life with him and I'm very open and honest, but I can't be "controlled"......I want to be myself, be spontaneous sometimes, make my own decisions. I'm married, not dead.