I'm so sorry. It constantly amazes me at how mean kids can be to each other. If it happens again I would most definitely talk to the mother to see if anything can be done that way.
I went through something similiar with my youngest stepson years ago. I don't even remember what I said to the kid but he was being very mean and bratty to Sam well his father comes up and we have a civil conversation. The kids mother wanted to call the cops because he told her I threaten him which I didn't.
I told him he wasn't welcome at my house any longer if he couldn't be nice and respectful that I didn't put up with that from my kids and I wasn't going to put up with it from someone elses either.
Of course, he added a lot more to it.
Anyway sorry for rambling. I would have your son pratcing his karate while she is around and it might scare her. This may be something if it doesn't stop that he unfortunately will have to take care of hisself.
You mentioned the mother doesn't really watch them is their a father around?
Good Luck and please keep us posted. |