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Originally Posted by k3teejay I'm sorry YT, I have some pent up steam that needs to be vented..
I am just so mad at my soon to be mother in law! I'll try to explain the best I can. She's never really liked me from the get go. In fact, she doesnt like any of her son's girlfriends. She hated me so much that she even kicked her son out of her house because he was dating me! One main reason why she hates me so much is because I come from a mediocre household and am not affluent.
Eventually she had to give in and accept me since I've been with her son for over 3 years now. Anyway, I do my best to show her as much respect as I can. Whenever I'm at her house, I clean and wash dishes and take out the trash, just to prove to her that I am a fit girlfriend for her son. She makes very rude remarks sometimes and I always bite my tongue. My only wish and hope is for reconcilation between us, since afterall she is going to be my future mother in law.
Yesterday, however, was the boiling point for me. Her "precious" chihuahua is so nasty to everyone. He will bite you if he does not know you. Actually he'll bite you even if he does know you (he's bit my fiance and I several times). And God forbid if I ever leave any thing on the ground because 5 minutes later, I'll find it drenched in his pee. I dread bringing TeeJay over to her house but I feel terrible leaving him at home by himself. So yesterday, I brought TeeJay over and ChuChu (her precious chihuahau) started picking a fight with him. TeeJay, still acts like a puppy and starts pouncing around and wagging his tail. He pounces on her precious chihuahua and he screams like banshee and goes crazy nipping at him! She immediately scoops ChuChu up and starts babying him and at the same time, she starts screaming at TeeJay calling him a bad dog. She almost goes over to hit him, until I scooped him up real quick and told her I would handle his punishment myself even though he did nothing wrong. She follows me, screaming that I am a terrible owner and that TeeJay is a terrible dog. She says that TeeJay is the culprit for ChuChu's bad behavior. Oh man! I wanted so bad to turn around and scream back at her but I ended up crying to my fiance and vowing never to return to her house with TeeJay. My fiance hates going over to her house too, but he does because he has 3 brothers and a sister that lives there whom he's all very close to. It's just so sad that she cannot accept me after all these years. My fiance and I havent even told her that we're engaged because we know she will not approve and she will make it her goal to break off the engagement like how she tried so hard to break us up when we first started dating.
Anyway, I can go on and on about her and all the tribulations that I've gone through with this woman but I'd probably fill up 10 pages. Sorry guys for the long rant, but I really needed to vent! |
What a wench. I would avoide her like the damn plague. I wouldn't go there. If he wants to go then so be it. Make arrangements to have quality time with the siblings outside of her home. You couldn't pay me to deal with that especially being as you seem to have bent over backwards to have her like you.
You can have a good relationship with him and avoid his mother. If I were you I tell him that I wasn't going over there. He is more than welcome to visit her because she is his mom but being as she doens't like you and you have tried you are done with it. I believe in giving respect where it's due and she definitely wouldn't get any from me.