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Originally Posted by GeorgiesMomma Wow I guess I found a good one then my fiance' has never cursed at me and we have been together for a few years. I have actually never had a man curse at me and vice versa. Now have I thought it in my head sure but to verbalize it never and I can get pretty hot headed at times. Oh and I am 28 too and he is 34. We never even say shut up to each other. He doesn't really curse much at all even when he is watching football (can't the same for myself though  ). |
Everyone has their thing. DH is a good man girl I wouldn't have spent 14 years and had three kids if he weren't. Girl I am a Leo and he is an Aries...those are both firey folks. I love DH to death but the cussing doesn't bother us. We both can cuss up a blue streak but we know what is a total no-no that will be something that can't be taken back. Each couple learns what their limits are. The FU doesn't bother me but hold on if he calls me a B or tells me I am like my mamma (who is a nasty mean drunk)...lol. Those would hurt and be past that line.
Here is a good one..I know this chick that won't allow the fiance to cuss because that is disrespectful yet they can shove each other and break things.
Every relationship has it's way of doing things. I definitely would tell anyone man or woman to walk away from someone that is loose with the hands. No person should deal with that one.
You know what.... with time you get to learn and see when your spouse is having their off moment and know to avoide them and let them be them. Lexi and her man are fairly new so they are still feeling each other out. When he learns to see if she is grumpy and vice versa they will know not to pay it any mind or to just not bother to let it escalate.