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Originally Posted by Bizzymammabee LOL...Nicole you are so right. You know what I have cussed out my DH and vice versa. Some relationships can take that for what it is...blowing off steam. As long as he doesn't put his hands on me it's all good. The F thing doesn't phase me. I have been with DH for 14 years and counting and that is not something that bothers us. I think each relationship has to learn what is a no-no and where that line is that you don't cross.
If you are one that doesn't care for the language then that is something you lay out in the beginning. Part of growing together is learning the paramaters of what you will and won't tolerate in your relationship.
Not to disrespect anyone but honestly I think that the younger folks on here...especially us East Coast folks are not phased by bad language. Words and arguing don't always equate that a man/woman that will be violent. DH and I can cuss up a storm but I would never ever worry that he would put his hands on me.
Lex...girl been there and gotten up on the wrong side of the bed and been grumpy. Sometimes we just get in that mood and you know what each of us can catch a mood. So talk to him and if you feel safe and are ok with who he is then be happy. |
Glad I'm not the only one! LOLOL And, I wake up on the wrong side of the bed every morning! LOL Can you imagine men up here saying Yes Ma'am and No Miss? That would be the day.