All of them are different. You could let her sleep with you or bite the bullet and listen to her whining and crying a few nights in the crate. She will stop. If you continue to let her out that is just re-enforces it in her mind....enough noise, long enough and I get out. Are you home during the day? If so, I'd suggest crating her some during the day. That would make the nighttime crating a little easier. Let her cry. Yes it's sad to hear, but she is fine. At night some people place the crate in the bedroom and hang their hand down close so puppy can smell it. Some pick the furtherest room in the house to lessen the noise factor. Be prepared at her age, she will probably need to go potty sometime during the night or very very early....like dark thirty.
It's tough love
If you want her to use a crate, you'll have to enforce it. Mine hated her crate at first....and SCREAMED,
literally....now the crate door is left open and she routinely goes inside to nap in it, and sometimes takes a treat inside to enjoy in private.
Good luck ~
PS Just saw your second post. Ramsey sleeps with us, but if we go out of town without her and she stays at the "babysitters"....she sleeps in her crate. They've told me....she goes right to sleep without a peep. Just another reason it's a good idea to have them crate trained....some babysitters don't want to sleep with a dog.