I'm so very sorry for your loss
And the last thing you want to deal with at a time like this is the insensitivity of others. As Mike said, they are missing out. As a pet-lover (currently owned by 2 yorkies), I respect others and their decision not to own pets - some people weren't cut out to own animals and it's probably a good thing! I just with that these same people would return the respect to those of us who do love animals. Many thoughts and prayers to you both during this time of sorrow. Find comfort in the memories you hold so very dear of Jewels and know that she's playing across rainbow bridge waiting for the day you join her.