I think that you will always feel for your first love. Thats natural and of course especially now because he's like a shiny new penny. Being married has it's advantages I'm sure but it's also hard, I've heard, being around the same person alll the time. So communication with a man you used to be in a relationship with, will give you a jolt through memory lane. I think that if you love your husband, you will no longer have communication with your ex because it will and already has affected your relationship with your own family. Jusy my opinion though. That's why I don't have guy friends anymore, it's too many distractions and possibilities even if your intentions are pure. |