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I so totally know what you mean!! But do what I did. My birthday was coming up, I so wanted a newer car, but I have wanted one from before Christmas, and the hubby never did anything about it. I really needed a new car, mine had 168,000 miles on it and was 16 years old (not that I was complaining!! LOL) Well anyway I found this car and I told my husband that I really wanted it IF we could afford it. He just kept saying things like if you really want it, maybe we should look around, and so on. On my birthday I went out and picked up the car!! WHen I told him he was surprise, but didn't say much. You know he never bought me anything, not even a card!! SO I'm so glad I went out and bought the darn car myself!!