[Tashasmom]

When my oldest is yelling he can't find his socks..my girls are fighting ..and my youngest is running through the house..i think lord please give me the strength to not throw them out lol..But then i'm outside planting a garden and my youngest comes and plants with me..or i'm sitting in the chair and my oldest plops in my lap..my oldest walks by and kisses my cheek..my youngest looks in my eyes and says i love you mommy and I know I couldn't imagine missing out on that. I've never felt love in my life til I held them for the first time and I haven't found that kind of love since.Don't get me wrong I love my husband and my family but nothing gives me the feelings that my kids do. That said lol..I still totally respect those that don't have chidren. We are all different and each and every person has the right to choose to or to not. I'd much rather someone say hey children are not for me and to stick to that then to see parents out there having kids that don't want to..or worse have them and not care for them properly..as for the kids acting out in stores. I have at one time or another had my own child do that. I don't know many moms that haven't..kids don't always act the way we want them to. It's how we handle the situation that matters. My pet peeve would be moms that take their kids out and the child looked like it hadn't had a bath in a month. A little soap and water goes a long way lol..