I am so sorry about your friend. You stated that you did not know what to do...it will come to you. You must take this one day at a time. Don't worry about tomorrow. Be with her now, support her now. Each day you have with her now is a blessing to you both. Share with her how what she is going thru has changed your life and how she has blessed your life. Nothing we can say here will touch your pain right now. Just know that you have made the right choice for all the right reasons...hang in there and if you need us, we are here for you!