Do you think that possibly she thinks you have different "house rules" than she does? Maybe she thinks that in your house it is "okay" for her dog to have accidents, but in her house she doesn't want to deal with accidents. Maybe after so long she has got it in her mind that it's okay. Sometimes people assume things after a while.
Here is an example: At my mom's house everyone knows they HAVE to take their shoes off at the door, she goes nuts on people if they don't. So everytime I go there I do it. But when we go to my house I don't mind people wearing thier shoes (because I rent.) When she comes over I don't make her take off her shoes, she just does it sometimes out of habit.
The point I am getting at is maybe she just thinks that you don't see it accidents in the house as a big deal and she does because of the new carpet. I really think that you guys should talk, it could just be a misunderstanding! |