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Originally Posted by mylittletigger My one question is why do we call overweight or plump people(as I politely put it) Heffers? I find it so hurtful. No one deserves to be called such a word.
as for her I would have had a few words of my own to say as well. Rude people should just stick to the old rule. If you have nothing nice to say don't say anything at all. and what I would add to that statement is "and if you do say something not nice expect the same back." |
When I say heffer I use this term regardless of a womans body type. I am so not concerned about peoples weight. Only they know their reasons on why they are this way and I am no one to judge. In this case she happened to be filled in a bit but that wasn't my main reason for calling her this name. I am so not the type of person to mock someones weight. I was brought up better than that.
