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Originally Posted by Tashasmom My youngest is adopted. So it may not bother you but what about the child have you thought about that? YOu act like it's no big deal..It's a very big deal. I'm sorry you feel so little about the child's feelings. |
I never said that I didn't care about that child's feelings. I simply said that I would not consider myself as a parent because I had no part in the raising of the child. Yes..the baby would have my genes..but the environment the child is raised in the morals and vaules they are taught come from the family they are raised by..not by genes..but like I said..that's just me personally..Maybe I was wrong to put adoption in to the mix because I truely feel as though it is something to be considered in it own. When it comes to adoption, you have a life and not just unfertilized eggs. It was not my intention to offend those who are adopted, have adopted, or been involved in the process. I can only imagine everything you have gone through and I commend you for..not that you need it from me or anyone else.
