I'm so very sorry to hear this - it just breaks my heart to hear about it. You asked what I would do and I would definitely choose to terminate the pregnancy and do everything that I could do to be here for my children and husband. Life is so unfair sometimes. You've already fought this fight! You shoudln't have to do it again, but alas, you do. You are so very brave and so strong. I truly admire you and wish that I would have half your strength to face such adversity.
<<<< HUGS! >>>>