Oh! I am crying right now! It is such a hard desion to make, but I will prey that God helps you find the answer! I know if I were in the same dilima I would want to wait, but my huuby on the other hand would not want to risk losing me! So I would probably give up the babies only, b/c your hubby as great as he probably is, probably could not do it all himself! I know it is hard, so again I say I will prey for you dear!
And remember whatever desion you make don't let anyone every make you feel bad for it, either way! It is your and your husbands desion! God will help you!