I am so sorry to hear this awful news, its is so sad your husband isnt with you. My sister is a breast cancer survivor (grade 1), her sister in law (grade 3) as well as her mother inlaw (grade 3). they are all suvivors and her mother inlaw passed about 20 years later from a heart condition.
I may be misinformed but cant you have a massectomy, while pregnant without harming the babies and do chemo/radiation after birth, or is this even a possibility?
I hope you have your family around to support you and youre able to get in touch with your husband, those 5 kids need you and him.
I wish god speed what ever your decision.
__________________ Kimberly |