[Tashasmom]

NO you didn't directly point your finger at me. But you more or less said it just the same.
Instead of guessing why some parents do or accusing..why don't you just ask? Ask me why my oldest slept with me..ask me why my youngest does. Don't just assume I am a bad parent. Just cause the majority puts their child in their own bed does that mean they are all good parents. NO i think not.
I was 17 when I had my first. I was young with no dad or anyone for that matter. He wanted to sleep with me so i let him.
My youngest when we first adopted him he had to be tested for devolopmental delayment along with other things. He also bout died when he was 2. He had a rough two years..we put him in bed with us because we were afraid he would have an asthma attack and stop breathing. He was in the hospital more than he wasn't..so now do you really think that makes me bad or him a bad child? If you do thats fine. My husband and I enjoy our kids enjoy being parents thats what matters to us.