I thought the exact same thing when i seen your post lol. It's hard to tell them no when all the want to do is snuggle up to mama or daddy and go to sleep. And i'm sorry the best feeling in the world is wrapping my arms around him..putting my face in his hair and smelling that baby smell..(he's 3 so not really a baby baby but he's my baby) It makes me feel so good that he knows he is always safe in my arms and daddies arms. That and to be honest with you. My husband when he was little he always wanted to sleep with his mom and dad and they wouldn't let him..so he'd try to sneak in the room sometimes falling asleep in the hall or by their bed. And I thought that was so sad when he told me that. My husband and I make time for intamacy don't get me wrong..we are just more creative and sneaky about it lol..we feel we only get so much time with them as it is and if that makes them happy and it makes us happy then why not. I think more focus should be put on kids that are mistreated then kids that possibly a little pampered.