I'm no expert on relationship, but my husband and I do have a good one and it's because of some little tricks we've learned. One never get caught up in the moment. He's mad, you're tired, he yells, you cry, no one listens, and nothing gets solved. Take some time to calm down and think about his feelings and concerns and what he actually said. Hopefully he will do the same. Go somewhere nice and private, probably away from the dog would be best because a barking yorkie can make a tense situation worse. Try and get down to what his main problems with the dog are now. How was he with the dog before you lived together? Is his new unfoundness for the dog based upon his stuff getting destroyed or other things? If it's just the barking and his stuff being destroyed hopefully you guys together can find ways to compromise and have every one live happily together. If you try to speak to him calmly and rationally and he still insists you choose and is not willing to compromise then I would suggest you take your dog and look elsewhere. When in a long term relationship a lot of things surfice that you never knew you'd have to deal with. If you love this person unconditionally and they you then you figure out ways to work these things out.
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