I'm into avoiding all the agony I can as the loss is always so great, so sad and so overwhelming that their pain always breaks my heart. No way to read those threads or posts without agonizing right along with them. That's why the concept of Rainbow Bridge is so necessary.
__________________  Jeanie and Tibbe One must do the best one can. You may get some marks for a very imperfect answer: you will certainly get none for leaving the question alone. C. S. Lewis |