I think its very nice!
My oldest son turns 2 today (born at 3:17 on 3/17)
and hubby wanted to get him big boy stuff for his birthday. Me... Rubber ducky. He Loves Rubber Ducks and will walk around saying Quack Quack Quack - ok - so maybe it' more like ack ack ack. lol ANYWAY... They are young only once. enjoy it! She is old enough to say what she wants and if all it is is a new bedspread.... GREAT.
Enjoy her being this age and being girly. I was such a tomboy.