First, I'd like to say I'm sorry. My male cat is going through the same thing right now. We did opt for the exploratory surgery and it did cost us eight something. Unfortunately for us our kitty has a large cancer, jammed packed with lymph nodes. The vet said even with chemo. that it was fatal. We opted not to do the chemo and while he definitely has gotten skinny, he doesn't seem to be in pain. As he's still eating and drinking and playing with his brother I'm not going to euthanize him. I would if I thought he was suffering. I'll pray for your little one and please, pray for my little kitty. It's very heartbreaking . Best wishes. |