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Originally Posted by BabyFidgette Oh, I get it. Then she really needs to check for sure. Did he get upset that she was pregnant because he doesn't want it? Because it sounds like that if she is just searching for signs that she's not. If that's the case, would she rather have the baby and lose him, or keep him and not have the baby? I know the ideal would be to have both, but let's face it...21 is not the ideal age to have a baby and keep your man. Men usually disappear, sorry to say.  |
Yeah neither of them want her to be pregnant. I wish I could slap some sense into them both for not being careful. Not having the baby isn't even an option for her. She is dead set against abortion, and she knows if she carries it for 9 months, she'd be too attached to give it up for adoption. I reall wish things would work out between her and her boyfriend. He really does love her and they've talked about getting married for a year already. Just judging from every fight they've had, I just think she needs to mature and get some self esteem. She relies on him for anything and everything. If there was no possible pregnancy I would definitely be urging her to break it off for awhile and find herself, before she gets serious about a relationship.