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Originally Posted by red98vett I speak from experience as I had my oldest at just 17....I also didn't really know till I was 2 months along. Having my son was the greatest thing in MY case...but being a mother at a young age is NOT for everyone.
I think she needs to find out NOW if she is or isn't. For one thing...if she is NOT...then she can just move on. IF she IS...then she has some HUGE decisions to make. Is she mature enough for a baby ? It takes alot of self sacrifice at that age....
I was lucky and was able to finish high school after my son was born and he even got a tiny diploma with his name on it when I graduated....he was the only baby in my whole school and everyone loved him....This was my angel at 1 year old...right after high school |
Aww he's adorable!
My friend is one of the most loving people I know and she's great with children and she would make a great mom. I wish this time she wouldn't put her boyfriend first. He's a good guy and if she wants to go through with the pregnancy, he wouldn't stop her, but if their relationship is already on the rocks, which it seemed like from our conversation last night, I don't know if she could emotionally handle everything at once. I want to give her a hug and be there for her SO BAD but I can't, I have school and priorities here. Last night I prayed for the small chance that she isn't pregnant. We're so close it feels like I'm going through it too. I just seem way more worried than her!