Well I have been married a few times ..sorry to say I once married a man 20 years older .ouch ..it makes a diff .The most important part of a relationship is the one you have with yourself ..for if you think its the right man ..the right amount of money ..ect..youll end up in a place that isnt so nice and the good news is if you stay true to who you realy are and know, you will be with the person who is just right for you and no one knows what that will look like ..but you will. Okay ..I"ll stepdown from my soap box .now ..