hmmmm. I was 22 and my husband was 35 when we started dating... It was the talk of the town... Ummmm, well, it could have been cause the two of us were still married.... he he he.. we were divorcing our spouces at the time! No shaking of the heads just yet! lol
I'm 31 now and he is turning 44 this month. He's my old man. It matters only when he starts worring that I am going to trade him in for a newer model.

Which will be NEVER! I love him more now then I ever have! I love that he is older. He is wise, established, done with his wild days, done trying to prove he's a man to his guy friends, and really ready to settle down. He knows what is important in life. He does not feel the need to dominate the household so his "Boys" will respect him. We work as a team.
My first husband of 2 years was my age, his ex-wife of 13 years was his age. We were both very unhappy. I just got out sooner. See women are smarter!

It works, I get my handsome old man, and he gets his cute little girl.

Ya I went there. Couldn't help myself.