short update:
i took kupo to the groomers today to get his ears trimmed.

really didn't like the idea of it, but i guess it couldn't have been helped.
she took about an inch from the front and back of his ear, and was commenting his ears were really big.. lol
i was kinda surprised to see how much hair came off of just one swoop of trim too o.o
his ear.. (that was droopy) came kinda 30% up after that trim. lol
now i have his inner ear taped... like in ㅗ shape... thicker at bottom, thinner at top..
i tried to put some on outer ear but gauze keeps coming off and he keeps scratching his tape to get it off... ugh lol
i just hope this helps