It is disappointing, for me, to find that threads which seek advice turn into debates which have 'right or wrong' and 'sides' attached to them.
The OP came here seeking opinions and instead this thread appears to have degenerated into bickering.
I am against tail docking but I do not judge those who continue the practice for many reasons. Mostly, because I believe that society has a huge influence on what people perceive as right or wrong. When something has been ingrained as permissible for a very long time, it is hard to persuade our collective minds to look outside of the issue so that it can be analyzed from alternative points of view. I guess my training allows me to be more objective than judgmental or maybe it's part of my personality, I don't know. I do feel sorry for the dogs who are victims of a permissive mentality but I am hopeful that tail docking, like other permissive practices of the past, will soon be frowned upon and/or discontinued in most countries. As someone mentioned, the tide has already turned significantly in favor of the dogs.
What I do know is that no one should come on here feeling like they should be afraid to voice their opinion or stick with their opinion because someone else may disagree. No one should be made to feel ignorant for asking a question. No one should feel upset because they have been shown the error of their ways by understanding people who have all made mistakes.
If we could just remember that we are all humans, imperfect by nature, then we could go a long way to restoring what this site should be about -which is learning.
Disagreement is not a bad thing, in fact, it is often necessary to get to the crux of an issue. But, there is a sophisticated, adult way to communicate.
I recommend this site:
Effective Communication: Improving Communication Skills in Business and Relationships
If someone feels offended by a post, or angry, I would suggest stepping back before responding so that time can assist with a thoughtful, constructive post instead of a personal attack.
OP- we are ALL Yorkie lovers and EVERYONE on here has made valid points. We are all passionate because we have seen horrible examples of what puppy mills, irresponsible breeding, ownership etc mean for these dogs.
I hope you can see past any negativity and find some real assistance in this thread as I believe everyone is trying to assist in their own way.
I still want pics when you get your new puppy
With love,
Sir Rupert Teddykins
