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Originally Posted by ladyjane  No one gets "chased away" unless they choose to be. We have had this topic come up before and quite frankly it is because some people think they know what is best to post. If they would simply stick with their opinions and not confront other members, the OPs would get through it all in a much easier fashion. The PMing that goes on is ridiculous....one person was PMd not so long ago with members trying to get the OP on "their side". Just so childish.
How do I know this happens? I went through something similar when I first joined and I know what goes on. I had a choice....deal with it or leave. There are other forums that are not run as well as this one. As has been said many times, if you think someone is breaking rules, report them. If the post is not removed then accept the decision of the admin/mod and leave the poster alone! Why constantly stir up stuff?
I wish that each person would post their opinion here and move along; but I also know the nature of online forums and accept what happens. Sadly we do have one member that certain people follow around and correct and it is imo more of a problem what that member does. They don't need to be coddling the OPs and confronting others just because THEY don't like the person's opinion. |
PartiPeanut, I quoted you in the above post but probably should not have.
It was not really directed at you..... the "you" I used was a general term for the people to whom my words "fit" . You know, "if the shoe fits, wear it" kind of thing.