Sending prayers for strength for your family.
Is it too early to start with therapy, so he can just vent and maybe have someone to talk things out with? Sometimes it's easier to talk to a sympathetic stranger. Not that he doesn't love, need or trust you, but he won't feel the need to spare feelings with a stranger.
It wouldn't hurt to find a support group for you as well. You need to vent your anger and fears, too.
Aww, my heart is bleeding for you all. |