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Originally Posted by yorkiemini  Bentleysmom,
This whole behavior is called "grooming" - sucking you in!
You witnessed/heard his behavior! Your gut feeling is important - don't ignore that! He know what he said and he felt free to say it.
He wants you to doubt yourself. Anyone who talks to you like that is NOT THE ONE!
I did not marry until I was in my my late thirties - was very career oriented and very picky about how I wanted to be treated - didn't ruin my life in the least! In fact I had many friends who married young tell me I was smart!
When I did marry my husband never talked to me like that even once! And we both had our good days and bad days.
I want you to think more of yourself!!! You are too important to Bentley and you two have a great thing going.
Listen to what other experienced folks on here are saying to you and don't be in a hurry! |
I so agree and thank you Jay for your perspective!