I feel compelled to tell you one more time...Do Not Trust Him! I have been in your shoes, only I gave my guy another chance, and then another and another until 17 years passed, he hurt my kids to hurt me. He was ALWAYS sorry until a point where he made me think it was my fault and something was wrong with me. I got the same advice that you are getting but I ignored it and paid dearly for it. Years of abuse, children who are afraid to trust and when I finally got counseling, I realized what I had done by staying with him. When I finally escaped, it took years to repair my life and to help my kids see positive relationships. And I do mean escaped, because they won't just let you leave. It has now been 28 years since I met that man and I still think "What would my life have been like if I had only listened to all the advice that I knew in my heart, was right. You don't want to go down this road. |