[Bentleysmom1985]

Thanks for all the great responses! I appreciate every one of you trying to help me.

He's been texting me nonstop to get me to meet on friday, he's really really good with words I must say, he's making me even think about giving him a second chance.

Is there any possibility that this was a one time mistake or not? I've been losing a lot of sleep over it.

But my instincts tell me to stay away. It's so hard to give up that image I had of him. I thought he was respectful and sweet, he even ask for my permission t hold my hand, to kiss me, or any type of physical contact during the beginning of th relationship.

It's mind blowing that a guy that seemed so respectful called me all those names, out of nowhere, he just exploded, I never even replied to that hurful text with all the insults because I was just in shock. He even told me to take my psycho bipolar personality to the next guy.

Anyway, I just told him I can't be with him anymore. Because I dont feel safe with him and he broke my trust. That was my last text.

I just want to move on, but there's still a tiny voice in my head that tells me to give him a second chance. (When someone begs you and asks you to not leave and they love you, it makes you want to reconsider leaving them, it's so hard!) I really want to follow your advice though and stay away.

I'm 29 and I thought I've found the one. It's scary to turn 30 and still be single :-/