I think having a difficult child can happen to anyone. My parents are awesome, they are loving and supportive and look how awesome I turned out
yet my brother, raised by those same people has been very difficult. He is hard to talk to, he is stand-offish at best and has gotten in serious trouble (has a record). He has addiction issues and has Not been an easy kid to raise. When you decide to be a parent, by conceiving or by adopting you are rolling a dice. Anything can happen. Being a parent is a huge responsibility that should be taken more seriously. So many people who have no idea just have a kid because it is the thing to do. It's refreshing to see how many of you are making the choice to think about it, to plan, to weigh the pros and cons. Although I might want a kid what if I end up with one like my bother? Could I handle that? If I never have kids I don't feel like I would be sad, my life is full. I have a loving family, a great Husband and 2 little furry babies that are the light of my life. I am going to see where life takes me but believe me when I say if or when we do decide on kids we will be ready for whatever life decides to throw us.