I believe it is possible to express oneself in a civil way without feeling like you are walking on eggshells. I have learned a lot through my experiences but that does not mean I know everything. Every dog is different and while there are general answers to some things most people who post here don't expect expert advice, they just want to hear what others have experienced.
Even if we had a professional Vet here, we could get another Vet that felt completely different about the way to handle things. Reputable breeders don't always agree on everything either.
While I am not part of the core group I can add to the discussion. I know some very valuable people have left because the drama got too intense. They don't make a scene, they just disappear and that is a shame.
It's not that hard to be kind even when you disagree.
I save my big girl panties for the hard things in life that I can't control. |